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NoPR Part Two: Chapter 21: Session 673, June 27, 1973 hatred hate war love powerlessness

Love, therefore, can contain hate very nicely. Hatred can contain love and be driven by it, particularly by an idealized love. (Pause.) You “hate” something that separates you from a loved object. It is precisely because the object is loved that it is so disliked if expectations are not met. You may love a parent, and if the parent does not seem to return the love and denies your expectations, then you may “hate” the same parent because of the love that leads you to expect more. The hatred is meant to get you your love back. It is supposed to lead to a communication from you, stating your feelings — clearing the air, so to speak, and bringing you closer to the love object. Hatred is not the denial of love, then, but an attempt to regain it, and a painful recognition of circumstances that separate you from it.

(Slowly:) In the same way, it is possible to love your fellow human beings on a grand scale, while at times hating them precisely because they so often seem to fall short of that love. When you rage against humanity it is because you love it. To deny the existence of hate then is to deny love. It is not that those emotions are opposites. It is that they are different aspects, and experienced differently. To some extent you want to identify with those you feel deeply about. You do not love someone simply because you associate portions of yourself with another. You often do love another individual because such a person evokes within you glimpses of your own “idealized” self.

Now: Love and hate are both based upon self-identification in your experience. You do not bother to love or hate persons you cannot identify with at all. They leave you relatively untouched. They do not elicit deep emotion.

SS Part Two: Chapter 12: Session 550, September 28, 1970 hate hatred sausage cheek evil

[...] First of all, love always involves freedom. If a man says he loves you and yet denies you your freedom, then you often hate him. [...]

Now: If you expand your sense of love, of health, and existence, then you are drawn in this life and in others toward those qualities; again, because they are those upon which you concentrate. A generation that hates war (Jane looked at Carl) will not bring peace. A generation that loves peace will bring peace.

If you hate evil, then beware of your conception of the word. Hate is restrictive. [...] You will find more and more to hate, and bring the hated elements into your own experience.

NoPR Part Two: Chapter 21: Session 672, June 25, 1973 Affirmation creaturehood hate deny closeted

“I hate.” A person who says “I hate” is at least stating that he has an “I” capable of hating. The one who says, “I have no right to hate,” is not facing his own individuality.

A man or woman who knows hate also understands the difference between that emotion and love. [...]

AFFIRMATION, LOVE, ACCEPTANCE, AND DENIAL

NoPR Part Two: Chapter 22: Session 676, July 9, 1973 unworthy hate inferior older scrawny

As lovers can see the “ideal” in their beloved, and yet be well aware of certain inadequacies, certain deviations from the ideal, so can you, loving yourself, realize that what you think of as imperfections are instead gropings toward more complete becoming. You cannot love yourself and hate the emotions that flow through you at the same time; because while you are not your emotions, you identify with them so often that in hating them you hate yourself.

“I feel inferior because my mother hated me,” or, “I feel unworthy because I was scrawny and small as a child.” [...] It is up to you as an adult to get on top of your beliefs, to realize that a mother who hates her child is already in difficulties, and that such a hate says far more about the mother than it does about her offspring. [...]

Dictation: If you have a loving regard for yourself, then you will trust in your own direction.

TES3 Session 145 April 12, 1965 hate evil ego roles assimilate

Hate is unreasoning fear. [...] Hate is that which is not love. Love is fulfilled, or fulfilling, value fulfillment. [...]

[...] He sees hate in his own heart, what he calls hate, which is but fear, so he projects it into another man’s face and says the man hates him; and he may slay the man. But the hate never existed, that is, what mankind thinks of as hate never existed.

Hate is that which fears to join, and hence is separate, and that is all.

NoPR Part Two: Chapter 21: Session 674, July 2, 1973 Christ Gospels affirmation love Matthew

[...] You cannot hate yourself and love anyone else. [...] You will instead project all the qualities you do not think you possess upon someone else, do them lip service, and hate the other individual for possessing them. Though you profess to love the other, you will try to undermine the very foundations of his or her being.

Now: Sometimes you may think that you hate mankind. [...] All of this is based upon your idealized concept of what the race should be — your love for your fellow man, in other words. But your love can get lost if you concentrate upon those variations that are less than idyllic.

When you think you hate the race most, you are actually caught in a dilemma of love. You are comparing the race to your loving idealized conception of it. [...]

ECS1 ESP Class Session, April 22, 1969 bacon discipline bees demand Dean

[...] For if you hate, you create a hateful reality. And to the extent that you hate, you find reality hateful. [...] To the extent that you love, you create a lovely reality. [...]

TES4 Session 176 August 9, 1965 Ella buttons Aunt Jay Alice

[...] If you hate, you will be hated. You will attract hate.

[...] They shared a love of nature. They both hoarded the things they loved. [...]

[...] She loved her husband most deeply. She and he shared a quite mystical love of nature and of animals. [...]

NoPR Part Two: Chapter 17: Session 663, May 14, 1973 criminal power aggression violence prisoners

(Pause.) Love is propelled by all of the elements of natural aggression, and it is powerful; yet because you have made such divisions between good and evil, love appears to be weak and violence strong. [...] (Emphatically:) Hate is seen as far more efficient than love. [...]

(11:44.) If you hate a parent, for example, you cannot use the point of power to tell yourself that you love the parent instead. The earlier exercises will have helped you understand the reasons for the hate.

[...] They have been alternately honored and feared, loved and hated. [...]

TPS4 Jane’s Notes Friday, April 7, 1978 scorn career approbation highpoints libvary

(To remind the subconscious of its love for the natural world and walking alone or with Rob; being out in the elements. Ask it to revive those loves and desires.

[...] Basically the creative play exploration, writing, is the main core of my creativity—and I do that for the love of doing it. [...]

[...] or hated me or tried to physically attack me... [...]

TES1 Session 3 December 6, 1963 Watts Gratis Frank China incarnation

Previous hates unresolved.

(“Can Jane consciously get rid of that hate and open her spirit on this plane?”)

(“What previous hates of Jane’s are unresolved?”)

NoPR Part Two: Chapter 11: Session 644, February 28, 1973 emotions beliefs refute revengeful hateful

Now: It is true that habitual thoughts of love, optimism and self-acceptance are better for you than their opposites; but again, your beliefs about yourself will automatically attract thoughts that are consistent with your ideas. There is as much natural aggressiveness in love as there is in hate. Hate is a distortion of such a normal force, the result of your beliefs.

[...] A steady barrage of hateful, revengeful thoughts should actually lead you to look for the beliefs from which they are gaining their strength.

[...] In their way the hateful or revengeful thoughts are natural therapeutic devices, for if you follow them, accepting them with their own validity as feelings, they will automatically lead you beyond themselves; they will change into other feelings, carrying you from hatred into what may seem to be the quicksands of fear — which is always behind hatred.

TPS5 Deleted Session December 2, 1978 Bryant Anita Zandt Rick Dickie

(Seth:) Now I love you and all of you, and I know that you love me. And I hope that that love is somehow distantly able, distantly, distantly to contain some, some, some, some kindly feeling for people like Anita Bryant. [...] Your love for humanity holds. [...] You do not hate anyone that you are not capable of loving. [...] But in the vast range of your emotions, leave room for loves that are very distant, so distant and so alien that you do not recognize them. [...]

[...] Is it American to be a homosexual and love poetry or dancing or music or children? Is it a cliché to think that all homosexuals are sensitive and love music, and children? [...] You may hate them or deride them. [...]

[...] It is a world of individuals, and distorting an old historic statement: God must love individuals because he never made anything else. [...]

SDPC Part One: Chapter 2 poems peach moons aesthetic poetry

Old hates lie in wait for the infant
As he grows into a man,
Then they leap upon him
When he puts his father’s coat on.
When the father’s bones drop into the grave,
The lice flock up as the dark earth falls
To feed on a son’s guilt love.

I was untouched ten years ago,
By love and even pain.
The world touched me or touched me not.
To me it was the same.

Old Hates
TES8 Session 388 December 20, 1967 daughter John wife Peg crippled

[...] (Pause.) John’s wife loves him, and has been made subconsciously to see the good points in his personality. In the past he hated the man who took away the daughter.

[...] He fell in love with the daughter, and despite her condition, took her to his home village.

[...] He had no one now to talk to, and he hated his daughter the more, and railed that she had forsaken him in his old age, after he had cared for her through the long years.

TES1 Session 13 January 6, 1964 enzymes chlorophyll solidified mental wires

You both know again what love and hate are, but as I told you before try to think in new ways. Love and hate for example are action. [...]

TPS2 Session 639 (Deleted Portion) February 12, 1973 Rooney mother cat painful tragic

[...] He was afraid of the cat, considering him wild and caged originally, as his mother had been in his interpretation, so he felt forced to help the cat (who did not have any love for him), as he felt before he had to help his mother—who would kill him if she had the chance.

Ruburt’s mother hated cats, particularly black ones. [...]

TPS1 Deleted Session April 25, 1971 Carl premise Sue insecurity attitudes

You did not see yourselves as people of integrity coming together in love, but as insecure individuals hoping that love could find the answer to fears that you were not willing to face otherwise.

[...] You also find yourself in the position where you believe you should be the entire support of your family, and where you know you have both been taking the easy way out, and you hate yourself for it.

[...] You have not felt that you manipulated well in physical reality, in the world as it is, and to some extent you hated both the world and yourself for this. [...]

UR2 Appendix 21: (For Session 721) counterparts Florence Maumee androgyny Appendix

(“Well,” I said to Jane after class, as we discussed the Chinese-American situation cited by Seth, “I don’t know about counterpart relationships in other kinds of realities, but it’s certainly obvious that at least some physical counterparts can hate each other …” So the larger self, I thought, would be quite capable of seeking experience through its parts in every way imaginable. Although it might be difficult for us to understand, let alone accept, the whole self or entity must regard all of its counterparts as sublime facets of itself — no matter whether they loved, suffered,5 hated, or killed each other or “outsiders.” [...]

[...] Our young man hates the Americans. [...]

[...] And if an individual strongly disliked a counterpart in another land, wouldn’t this quality of emotion be detrimentally reflected in the person doing the hating?

TPS7 Deleted Session June 7, 1982 sinful love beset expression threatening

Some of this will appear quite clearly later, that is, certainly Ruburt felt (underlined) at times that his mother hated him. When Ruburt fell in love with you, his vigor, strength, and expression rose to the surface. He needed love’s expression on your part, and he spontaneously expressed his own love for you in words and action. [...]

(Very long pause at 8:20.) I want to go back in terms of continuity, and yet also for tonight’s purposes I want to stress the power of love’s expression in automatically combating such negative situations. That is, the expression of love automatically reassures the sinful self that it is indeed not sinful (a statement that at once I found hard to believe, considering its past and recent actions). [...]

[...] Your own love for Ruburt is far more helpful than you realize—and if you can get the feel of that love, it alone can serve as a very potent force that can refresh and revitalize both of your lives. [...]

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